Yep I feel about as stupid as a stump. My wife and I have been together for about 20 years all told and today I found out something that I should've know from the get go. To give a little back story I have always been interested in family histories along with the Coat of Arms and Family Crests. I've mostly concentrated on my dad's side of the family as it was the easiest to get information about.
I was searching to see if my dad's name might have a Tartan associated with it. I didn't hold out much hope since it's an English name but you just never know sometimes. While conducting the doomed search my wife popped around the corner and saw the Family Crest on the screen. She asked me what I was searching for and I told her I was looking for the Tartan if there was one. She stood there for a second and then asked me to check her maiden name. I didn't see what it could hurt and since she was showing an interest in her name's history I was more than happy to oblige.
Ok for those of you out there that don't know what a Tartan is I'll tell ya.
" a pattern consisting of criss-crossed horizontal and vertical bands in multiple colors. Tartans originated in woven cloth, now they are used in many other materials. Tartan is particularly associated with Scotland. Scottish kilts almost always have tartan patterns. (Tartan is also known as plaid in North America, but in Scotland, a plaid is a tartan cloth slung over the shoulder or a blanket." Here's the link to more info on Tartans where I got this from:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tartan
Anyway I tossed her name into the family search and up it came. This was good news since her name is spelled many different ways. It wasn't until I took a closer look that I realized something was off. It said her name was Scottish. I turned to her and said "I thought you were Irish" she replied "I am, on my mothers side but Scottish on my dads side". For almost 20 years I had thought she was just Irish but stupidly didn't bother to check.
You might be wondering why this is important well to me it is in the fact that I'd have had a really hard time on her family history if I'd kept to Irish. Another reason is that when looking for Tartans I can now look for her family Tartan as well and we can both wear it since they make kilts for women now as well. On a lark we put in several other family names that are intertwined into ours and found that while some English came into mine it was mostly Scottish and Irish names such as Blake and Gunn and Holder.
I told her that if we can't find her Tartan (my name doesn't have one) we could always fall back on the Air Force Tartan ( yes they have one for all military branches) or we could make one of our own. In the meantime I showed her some kid kilts that would look adorable on the boy or the girls if they want to wear one.
We went back to the Family Crest website and decided to send a copy of it to her dad framed for Christmas as well as getting one for her. She wants to get a family picture done and this way we can hang it between both our family crests there by showing the kids their name history for both sides of the family. While I still feel kind of stupid for just assuming and not asking now we know and I gotta say she has a beautiful crest.



